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Wrapping gifts really nicely can actually backfire

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How nicely do you need to wrap your gifts this holiday season? You can probably relax when giving gifts to family, research suggests, but not acquaintances.

Researchers used three experiments to explore how the neatness of the wrapping affects a recipient’s expectations about their gift.

“Neat wrapping leads the recipient to set high expectations that are hard for the gift to meet.”

In the first experiment, participants, all of whom had previously stated that they were fans of a particular sports team and not fans of a rival team, received a real wrapped gift to keep. Half got gifts in neat wrapping while half received gifts in sloppy wrapping. Half of each wrapping group received a mug with their preferred team’s logo on it, and to test whether the effect persisted even when the gift was undesirable, half received a mug with the rival’s logo on it. In both cases, the gifts were wrapped in the same blue paper and gold ribbon.

Whether the recipient got a mug they liked or not, the researchers found they were significantly more likely to appreciate their gift if it was sloppily wrapped, but less appreciative if the gift was neatly wrapped. This effect is what social scientists call expectation disconfirmation.

“Neat wrapping leads the recipient to set high expectations that are hard for the gift to meet,” explains Erick Mas, a postdoctoral scholar at the Vanderbilt University Owens Graduate School of Management. “On the other hand, sloppy wrapping leads to low expectations that are easily met or exceeded, giving the gift recipient a pleasant surprise.”

In the second experiment, the researchers sought to dig deeper into the disconfirmation theory by testing the impact of a neutral, generic gift. In this test, participants received a pair of bland midrange earbuds. Again, they found the effect persisted: Sloppily wrapped earbuds were better received than neatly wrapped ones.

In the third experiment, the researchers tested whether the relationship between the giver and the recipient mattered by replicating the earbud experiment while asking participants to imagine the giver was either a close friend or an acquaintance. Interestingly, the disconfirmation effect persisted in the friend condition, but the researchers observed the opposite when the giver was described as an acquaintance.

“In the case of an acquaintance, we’re seeing a kind of spillover effect where the recipient assimilates the giftwrap into their evaluation of the gift itself,” says Mas. “When we don’t know very much about the other person, we may rely more on the giftwrapping quality as a cue about how they value the relationship.”

The takeaway, Mas says, is that this holiday season, you might want to take extra care wrapping those trinkets for acquaintances like neighbors and coworkers, and not worry so much about those gifts for your close friends and family.

The study appears in the Journal of Consumer Psychology. Coauthors are from the University of Nevada.

Source: Vanderbilt University