We heap more praise on people who’ve suffered

"It's important that we pay attention to human beings not just as creatures that do bad things to each other, but also as creatures that do good things for each other," Philip Robbins says. (Credit: Getty Images)

People tend to give more praise to an adult for their good deeds after discovering that person has had to overcome adversity or suffering earlier in life, such as abuse and neglect as a child, research finds.

“Historically, psychology and philosophy have had a stronger focus on the ‘dark’ side of human behavior, such as moral wrongdoing, and less attention has been placed on studying the ‘light’ side of human behavior, such as acts of altruism,” says Philip Robbins, principal investigator of the project and an associate professor and chair of the philosophy department at the University of Missouri.

“This research aims to provide a better understanding of a relatively neglected aspect of human psychology, the human mind, and the human condition, which concerns how people process and react to positive behaviors, such as giving praise.”

The research is based on survey results from a total of 974 participants. It builds upon the researchers’ previous finding that people tend to think of an adult who has committed a crime as less culpable, and less deserving of punishment, when told that the accused had suffered serious harm in childhood.

Robbins says the team’s findings are also relevant to thinking about criminal sentencing, particularly in capital trials. Defense counsel often presents evidence of clients’ suffering and victimization in their early years, and the authors’ previous and current studies support this practice. He adds that the findings point to a broader issue about how people judge others without knowing who they really are as individuals, since knowing what a person has experienced in life can alter how we assess their good and bad deeds.

“It’s important that we pay attention to human beings not just as creatures that do bad things to each other, but also as creatures that do good things for each other,” Robbins says. “Part of what’s remarkable about our species is our capacity to behave in prosocial ways, such as cooperating with and helping others, as well as antisocial ways, such as competing with and harming them.”

The paper appears in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology.

Source: University of Missouri