Marriage’s perks extend to LGBT older adults

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Marriage has been legal for same-sex couples for nearly two years—longer in some states—but the health benefits are already apparent, say researchers.

For years, studies have linked marriage with happiness among heterosexual couples. The new study is among the first to explore the potential benefits of marriage among LGBT couples.

“In the nearly 50 years since Stonewall, same-sex marriage went from being a pipe dream to a legal quagmire to reality…”

It is part of a national, groundbreaking longitudinal study with a representative sample of LGBT older adults, known as “Aging with Pride: National Health, Aging, Sexuality/Gender Study,” which focuses on how historical, environmental, psychological, behavioral, social, and biological factors are associated with health, aging, and quality of life.

The researchers found that LGBT study participants who were married reported better physical and mental health, more social support, and greater financial resources than those who were single. The findings appear in a special supplement of The Gerontologist.

“In the nearly 50 years since Stonewall, same-sex marriage went from being a pipe dream to a legal quagmire to reality—and it may be one of the most profound changes to social policy in recent history,” says lead author Jayn Goldsen, research study supervisor in the University of Washington School of Social Work.

Some 2.7 million adults ages 50 and older identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender—a number that is expected to nearly double by 2060.

Among LGBT people, marriage increased noticeably after a 2015 US Supreme Court ruling legalized same-sex marriage nationwide. A 2016 Gallup Poll found that 49 percent of cohabiting gay couples were married, up from 38 percent before the ruling.

The perks of marriage

For the study, more than 1,800 LGBT people, ages 50 and older, took surveys in 2014 in locations where gay marriage was already legal (32 states and Washington, DC). About one-fourth were married, another fourth were in a committed relationship, and half were single.

Married respondents had spent an average of 23 years together, while those in a committed, unmarried relationship had spent an average of 16 years. Among the study participants, more women were married than men, and of the respondents who were married, most identified as non-Hispanic white.

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Researchers found that, in general, participants in a relationship, whether married or in a long-term partnership, showed better health outcomes than those who were single. But those who were married fared even better, both socially and financially, than couples in unmarried, long-term partnerships.

Single LGBT adults were more likely to have a disability; to report lower physical, psychological, social and environmental quality of life; and to have experienced the death of a partner, especially among men.

The legalization of gay marriage at the federal level opens up access to many benefits, such as tax exemptions and Social Security survivor benefits that married, straight couples have long enjoyed. But that does not mean every LGBT couple was immediately ready to take that step.

Don’t say ‘go get married’

According to Goldsen, marriage, for many older LGBT people, can be something of a conundrum—even a non-starter. LGBT seniors came of age at a time when laws and social exclusion kept many in the closet. Today’s unmarried couples may have made their own legal arrangements and feel that they don’t need the extra step of marriage—or they don’t want to participate in a traditionally heterosexual institution.

Goldsen also points to trends in heterosexual marriage: Fewer people are getting married, and those who do, do so later.

“More older people are living together and thinking outside the box. This was already happening within the LGBT community—couples were living together, but civil marriage wasn’t part of the story,” she says.

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The different attitudes among older LGBT people toward marriage is something service providers, whether doctors, attorneys, or tax professionals, should be aware of, Goldsen says. Telling a couple they should get married now simply because they can misses the individual nature of the choice.

“Service providers need to understand the historical context of this population,” she says. “Marriage isn’t for everyone. It is up to each person, and there are legal, financial, and potentially societal ramifications.” For example, among the women in the study, those who were married were more likely to report experiencing bias in the larger community.

At the same time, Goldsen says, single LGBT older adults do not benefit from the marriage ruling, and other safeguards, such as anti-discrimination laws in employment, housing, and public accommodations, are still lacking at the federal level.

Over time, Goldsen and colleagues will continue to examine the influence of same-sex marriage policy on partnership status and health.

Funding came from the National Institutes of Health and the National Institute on Aging. Additional researchers are from the University of Washington School of Social Work and Loyola Marymount University.

Source: Kim Eckart for University of Washington