Denied money, moms more likely to spank kids

RUTGERS (US) — Women with a partner who keeps a tight grip on the family’s finances in the first year of the relationship are more likely to be depressed and spank their children five years later, research shows.

The new findings specifically relate to intimate partner violence (IPV) against women since women disproportionately represent survivors and males as perpetrators of physical, sexual, and economic abuse, says Judy L. Postmus, associate professor and director of the Center on Violence Against Women and Children at Rutgers.

Economic abuse is when a husband withholds money, forces his partner to turn over earnings or savings, or denies her access to bank accounts or employment opportunities. Psychological abuse includes such behaviors as preventing contact with friends and family and delivering insults and criticism. Slapping, hitting, kicking, and unwanted sexual contact are considered signs of physical or sexual violence.


“Our results indicate that mothers who experienced physical, psychological or economic abuse at year one were more likely to experience a depressive episode in year five,” Postmus says.

“When people think about IPV, they might think of physical or psychological abuse, maybe sexual abuse, but they rarely think about economic abuse,” Postmus says.

“Since the latest recession, however, more attention has been focused on financial matters such as financial literacy and personal finances. There have also been efforts by the federal government to better prepare individuals to understand financial matters. Still, there have been relatively few studies on economic abuse.”

Controlling for such demographic variables as age, ethnicity, education, and childhood and adult living arrangements, mothers who experienced economic abuse were 1.9 times more likely to exhibit signs of depression than mothers who had not suffered abuse.

Similarly, mothers who experienced psychological or physical abuse were 1.4 and 1.8 times, respectively, more likely to show signs of depression. When testing for level and changes in abuse over time (between years one and three), only economic abuse predicted maternal depression.

“It is surprising to find economic abuse more predictive of depression over time than other forms of abuse,” Postmus says. The results linking economic abuse with depression, including changes in severity of economic abuse over several years, had not been previously identified.

Parenting at year five was measured in two dimensions: engagement in such parent-child activities as singing, reading or telling stories, playing with toys, or taking a child to a playground or on an outing, and the use of spanking as a disciplinary behavior.

Results indicated that mothers who experienced economic or psychological abuse in year one all reported less engagement in daily parent-child activities (5.1 compared to 5.3 for women who did not experience abuse) and were 1.5 times more likely to spank the child in year five.

“It’s possible that having a partner control access to money or preventing independence through work or school may have a lasting impact on women’s mental health, and feelings of  disempowerment may force mothers to resort to spanking as a parenting tactic,” Postmus says.

She cautions that further research is needed to better understand the relationship between various types of abuse and parenting behaviors, including how the influence of the perpetrator’s actions affects the child and the nature of the perpetrator’s own parenting behaviors.

Source: Rutgers